How to boost your self-confidence and overcome your insecurities.

Confidence. It's certainly true that some people have wallpapered their comfort zone with confidence, while for others it's completely out of reach. But the reality is that confidence is something that you can develop over time. Want to know more?

1.Control your mind:

We all know that our brain controls our body; so we must learn how to control our brains. We must know how to control our way of thinking. We must always feel like we are worth it,we need to have a different perspective towards ourselves. A lot of people feel insecure and unconfident and that is totally normal and understandable. But how to overcome these feelings is our job.

2.Role models:

Making someone your inspiration can help you a lot. You need to embrace vulnerability and learn to tolerate failure to allow confidence to prosper.

3.Self love❤️:

The most important relationship that you'll ever have will be the one with yourself. For better or worse, you are stuck with yourself, exactly as you are, from now until your final moments. There is no diet,no medical retreat and no surgery that can separate your mind from your body. You cannot break up with yourself,sorry. You need to cherish yourself as you would cherish someone you admire.

Many of you might have this question in your mind:Why do i need to be more confident?

One of the most important things for you to understand about self confidence is that it is a great and useful thing to have, but not the 'right' thing to have. Indeed, just like it's neither right nor wrong for a glass to be full of water or for a glass to be empty, it's neither right nor wrong to be full of self confidence or to lack self confidence.

Rather, it's a question of how do you want to be and why.

This means that if you currently have low self confidence (or even no self confidence at all), this is a completely valid and acceptable way of being, so don't spend even a second feeling bad about it. 

Instead, appreciate this: your life improves in every way the more self confident you become. So that's why it's worth your time, effort, and energy to do so.

How important is self-confidence?

It is important to appreciate that one of the most important benefits of being more self confident is that it naturally helps you become stronger and stronger over time, with everything you encounter and experience, rather than weaker and weaker.

By: Izan-e-Rehman